Law of Attraction Coach Explains: Let Yourself Off the Hook, It's Your Responsibility
Author: Nanette Geiger
Perhaps you have heard of the 'Bucket of Crab' mentality. I mean the sort of thinking that believes, "if I cannot have something, neither can you." It's a way of invalidating another person's happiness by dragging them down to their inadequacy. It often is shown by a colleague or family member who doesn't like or does not want you striving for a higher goal or going beyond things that are typically the norm for a culture. Everyone's been there.
It is the same with tribal mindset. The tribe is meant to serve and keep the culture safe and thriving. Each member has an explicitly delineated and extremely valuable role and function. If you desired to go beyond (as is our nature as human beings) you literally put the entire tribe at risk. You are taught: "I can't go past what the tribe teaches, that would mean I'd be cast out and suffer certain death". You would be exiled and not given food or water and without another tribe for hundreds of miles.
However, you were designed to create. Your very nature is to go beyond, express, desire, and manifest. Then reach for another fun thing or dream to reach. I have read that prior to reaching 5 years old, they have heard the word 'No' over 60,000 times! It would seem that our nature and our cultural values are in conflict with one another.
It is a small wonder contradicting belief constructs, critical mental monologue and fear of success bring us down from time to time. It's been stamped into our subconscious. This is known as cognitive dissonance. It is like static from your mind when you hold two opposing thoughts at the same time. This dissonance becomes detrimental and wants a solution. It gets resolved in one of two ways. Either by returning to old, known beliefs, or by letting go of the old to reach for a new level. A Law of Attraction Coach can help you completely change your outlook with expert life coaching.
It's no wonder with the programming we've adopted that it can be so hard to make any lasting change. You see, it's not your fault. Don't blame yourself and pile more negativity on yourself. You're not to blame. Law of Attraction Relationships are incredibly rewarding and fulfilling beyond your wildest dreams! Think of someone who has every quality you have ever wanted in a lover.
It is not your fault, but you owe it to yourself to grab your power back. You've always had the ability to decide who you are and command that. Your word is attractive. And even more intensely, your inner dialogue in conjunction with emotion are creative and attractive. Glare the limiting programs in the face and confidently choose another possibility for yourself. You are meant to thrive and create. You have the support of the Universe. Relationship Attraction has never been more powerful with the discovery of the Law of Attraction.
About the author: Nanette Geiger is a relationship coach and author of many books and articles focusing on Relationships, the Law of Attraction and Self-Mastery. You can find more helpful articles on the Resource Page and books on the publications page of her website at http://www.NanetteGeiger.com.
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